ikool 2010-09-11 03:29:38

Atleast Newgrounds will always love you... :'<
Forever and ever and ever and ever...

On a more srs note, try to cheer up. Even though it may seem sad now, try to look at the more positive things you have in your life right now.

My only advice would be to not think of your past too much. I had tons of troubles when I moved and it took years to get over it...

omegared 2010-09-11 04:07:28

You'd be very surprised. Sometimes people don't change like we think they will. And they don't forget, hardly ever, who we are to them.

I moved away from my home town two years and I barely see my best friends. And it's really hard for me to make friends here in my new town because of that yah know. You know.

But there's always a good perspective to things and if you look on the good side of things, before you know it, you're going to be around your old friends and family again, and things won't be as different to them or you as you thought.

Honestly, you always have a chance to make things better.

Sorry to sound like a freaking homo, but this is what I have honestly found to be true. I just keep a good perspective and I always seem to find myself in the right place, and I mean with people.

omegared 2010-09-11 04:08:44

My ^ post has to do with the whole self identity thing too ;)

omegared 2010-09-11 04:19:22

Yah I'm posting a lot, but I really relate to this.

I'm also an introvert, by nature. I have been to many parties and I have groups of friends that are all over the place. What I have found is that I am actually very comfortable with myself, and I am always worried about what I think other people think.

I think, from what I read from you here, that you are trying to identify yourself, and you are getting emotional over the fact that you might have spread yourself thin with friends or people you know.

The best advice I can lend you is to talk about it with those same people, at least ones that are actually available to listen, and you'll see that it's really not that big a deal.

Again, not everyone changes that much, not even over two or more years. In fact, people change very little for the most part. Unless they are driven individuals who see something in them they don't like.

Take it in stride, and remember this: Life is big, and it's easy to get bogged down when you look at everything about it all at once, but it is important to do this, just know that we, as people, don't deal with it all at once we deal with life one day, one step, at a time. So keep everything in perspective, and deal with what you can while you can.

If you feel sad, talk, and if you feel good, enjoy yourself, and don't worry about the other people too much. They'll be fine. You need to worry about you, for now.

hope this helps

TheBoogley 2010-09-11 05:22:52

woah, that was deep... I'm glad your work is progressing well.
This whole identity thing is a great subject to animate about. SERIOUSLY

MindChamber 2010-09-11 09:59:15

I stopped at "I am a nice guy" lol

Assington 2010-09-11 11:08:23

Give it more time buddy, i'm sure you'll get more settled into things, you haven't been there that long.

KhawnerL 2010-09-11 11:49:59

pfffffffftahahaahaah

Redfeather 2010-09-11 17:51:12

lol

MAYORMCHEESE 2010-09-11 21:34:22

I send dirty PMs to Golfinho every day. I *think* he understands me.

Short-Factor 2010-09-12 02:41:44

I wish I could relate to this but I don't think I can. I've considered feeling that way the day I move away from home. But for the most part everyone around me has been completely against me and treated me like shit most of my life. So, I can't see myself regretting a move all too much. There's only a handful of people I know who really stood by me, and I know I will miss them when I move. The other half of your problem is being foreign, something I cannot at all relate to, but I guess I can only repeat the tired cliche of "being yourself."

Great-01-Revolver 2010-09-13 22:33:49

It's just a part of life it'll be over soon, but for now you just gotta to what you gotta do man.